出嫁前母亲给女儿的忠告:越懂事的女人,越容易被婆家人忽视

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Xiao Xue still has a month to marry Jiang Yucheng. For her daughter's marriage, Xiaoxue's parents can be said to be broken. Especially the mother of Xiaoxue, the closer she is to the wedding, the more nervous she is, the more she is afraid of where she is, and the poor care.

Xiaoxue looked at her mother's busy way, and couldn't help but comfort her mother: "Mom, I will get married, and his family is not far from my home. I will come back to see you later."

Xiaoxue's sensibility made her mother both happy and worried. Indeed, Xiaoxue was a very sensible girl from an early age, and she almost did not let her family do anything for her.

But it is because of this, Xiaoxue's mother is particularly worried, she is afraid that Xiaoxue's sensible things will make Xiaoxue bullied in her husband's family, and she is even more afraid that Xiaoxue will be despised in her husband's family because she is sensible.

As a person who came over, Xiaoxue’s mother really understood the life after marriage, so she kept licking Xiaoxue: the more sensible the woman, the easier it was to be ignored by her husband.

At the beginning, Xiaoxue was still very puzzled. She felt that a woman who was sensible would make people feel intimate and get along well, but she slowly discovered it. The mother said something is reasonable.

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Because they are about to get married, Xiaoxue and Jiang Yucheng are also busy preparing for the wedding scene. At the beginning, Jiang Yucheng promised Xiaoxue to find a cameraman to shoot, but Jiang Yucheng said that he forgot about it.

Xiaoxue is a bit angry, but because Jiang Yucheng has a good attitude, she is sensible and careless. What she didn't think of was that Jiang Yucheng didn't forget it, but he was bothered to find a cameraman and wasted money.

For this matter, Xiaoxue and Jiang Yucheng had a quarrel. Xiaoxue said: "I didn't care about you before because I understand that you are very busy recently, but you used to deceive me. Is this marriage still not finished?"

xx果然,小雪的态度有点强硬,江玉成立即软道歉,向她道歉,同时继续忙着举行婚礼。

事件发生后,小雪突然明白了母亲的建议。事实上,女人越明智,她的丈夫就越容易被忽视。

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西梅情绪解读:

俗话说,婆婆不是母亲,她丈夫的家庭不是她的母亲。作为一个女人,在处女家庭中,你是你父母的女儿。你可以考虑如何变得如故,以及如何变得如故。父母会给你最大的爱和宽容。

但是,在丈夫的家庭不一样的情况下,据说有点疏远,也许家人自己不把自己的儿媳视为自己的家庭,所以当他们相处时,他们会感到尴尬,会有这么多的矛盾。

毕竟,作为媳妇不是他们的亲生女儿,你的脾气和疾病,而你的丈夫和家人也不必容忍它。

因此,就像小雪的母亲给小雪的建议,一个女人结婚后,她不能无知,但她不能太懂事。拥有自己的脾气和底线是非常重要的。

女人在家很聪明,有时候你会降低你的位置来迎合对方,而另一方可能会用棍子对抗蛇并直接欺负你。

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你理解的东西越多,你工作的越多,你工作的就越多。

当许多女性刚刚与别人的家结婚并成为别人的新婚妻子时,她们通常会选择成为一个好妻子和一个好母亲。

因此,结婚后,所有的家务都被带走,每天都像勤劳的蜜蜂,没有休息。

然而,女性如此勤奋,以至于她们可能无法交换他们的欣赏和关注。相反,他们会认为你认为这是理所当然的,并认为这是你应该做的。即使以后,如果你有一点家务,你会说你很懒,说你不合格。

所以,女性,真的没有必要那么理智,勤奋,做自己的事情。

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你受的越多,你欺负的就越多。

俗话说,人们被人欺骗,马山正在骑马,柿子被轻轻地挤压。任何人际关系都是如此。总有一些人欺负和努力,他们认为别人的好脾气是欺凌。首都。

因此,如果一个女人遇到一个不合理的婆婆,不要为自己悲伤并思考。

你必须明白,你越明智,你就越想要你的家人和一切,你就会放弃一切。也许你认为家庭被欺负的越多,你就越不关心你的感受。

有很多的话,你的善意应该有点尖锐,同样的道理,你明智的事情应该有点尖锐,女人应该有一个脾气,一定要限制一个人的明智的事情。

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男人越体贴,男人就越多进入统治者

有时候,一个人真的不想对另一个人太好,因为对方可能是一块热石,你付出了全部的心,却换来了另一个人的鼻子和脸。

家庭中的女性应该明白,大多数家庭成员总是面对自己的儿子。你对他们的儿子很好。他们只会认为这是你的义务,你应该这样做,你不会认为你已经为此付出了代价。认为你是非常明智的。

即使在后面,你也无法对你丈夫的照顾采取任何行动,他们会觉得你是有罪而且不擅长你的丈夫。

婚姻是女性生活的一个重要转折点。如何管理婚姻是许多女性头痛的问题。但事实上,婚姻管理并不复杂。只要你掌握了规模并让一个“没有烦恼”的女人,就足够了。